you can never really tell if a person has ethics or not. define ethics.

ethics (noun) - a set of principles of right conduct.

yeah. were in the internet so wheres the ethics? its called netiquette.

netiquette (noun) - etiquette practiced or advocated in electronic communication over a computer network.

its not forced into someone its learned and taught into us when we were young. then we take it in and carry it as we grow old. wherever we go and whatever we do even though someone's not looking.

some people just dont really care about other people here in the internet. maybe because of freedom. there are no laws restricting the boundaries of certain behavior here. there are rules and given sanctions for every site. some site dont have one. we choose where to browse and stay. where we benefit and becomes happy.

how about people who run a certain site? a person who implement rules?
what if they are the ones who breaks the rules because they are administrators or the owner?
do you think thats just? fair?

i for one do not think so. who am i talking about? lexxis of banidad.com forum community. he implemented not to delete any posts because some are back reading. then again, some violated that.

on october 27 of this year, someone deleted my post in the lounge board. a board for administrators and moderators.

i was pissed off. and before that kissy wouldnt get off my back.

i never intended to hurt anyone. i spoke for all of us. i wanted to suggest something good. and they deleted and disrespected me.

kissy wouldnt speak up to this matter until she spoke to me in my yahoo messenger. she admitted she deleted my post. and the only reason she gave to me was that she was protecting me with all the backstabbing comments.

i do not care what other people say. i really dont need her help, me telling me what to do and especially doing me favors when im not asking her too. from the beginning i never liked her. so why start now? okay, so everybody deserves a chance. but DAMN she wont listen when i told her to talk to the person directly when she got a problem. coward. that was the last time i ever talked to her. im not intending of changing her and im not changing for her either.

i already reported the matter to both of the owners and so far i recall no action on this matter. biased, unfair and special treatment as i see it.

on november 22, lexxis made a thread in the lounge namely "whats wrong with banidad". he wanted all of us to speak up. and we all did and majority of us said that the forum was too strict and some of the rules should be revised. he didnt listen. its was a useless thread actually. display. so some of us resigned. we didnt have a say. its not considered a forum.

november 27 i had another post in creative corner. the thread named "dear diary". my post was again deleted. yeah. it was a bitchy post but i did not violate any rule. how come delete it? oh yeah, so people will know that there is something going on with banidad. i can understand that. im not that stupid. they should at least have my consent before deleting anything. its my intellectual property and they have no right. they are abusing their power. they can get away with everything.

now i proved that lexxis is a real selfish owner. i gave him a chance thats why i posted in his thread. im disappointed. im wrong. false hope. i doesnt really matter anymore. there are far more important things than banidad.

besides, banidad is paying for his/their actions. do they really think that the members are that stupid not to know that there's something going on? they are looking for krisha. the real owner. of course, they wanna know why she left and someday they will know. heck! some even dont post anymore.

banidad was such a happy place when we were there. when everyone talks to each other and says hi. everything is okay.

now? they are too serious and take everything too tight. the processes etc etc and blah blah blah. suffocating and tiring. and i really hope what they are doing will benefit banidad. they continue and go on without us.

i dont really need banidad. im gonna live without it. and so will banidad.

maybe ill post about what really happened why krisha left. as for now, im posting for myself. and for banidad members reading this. you now know why we left. and i suggest, you think which is the right from wrong.